Loving: Feeling Enchanted

Loving means feeling enchanted by the way
another person’s being and essence
touch and influence you.

If a good romp is all you require to fulfill
your longing for someone, anybody will do
so go ahead and enjoy yourself. If you long
for the presence of a special person, without
thinking of doing anything, then the feeling has
value. Sex is meaningless fun and should be
treated as such. Loving someone for their
essence is so different, there is no
comparison.

Loving means perceiving a different person and
a new world as you look through the perspective
of your love. Loving means feeling like a different
person in the beloved’s presence and does not de-
mand anything in return, hoping for a reciprocal
feeling, but demanding and according
total freedom of choice.

Desire means admiration and need and requires nothing
but immediate satisfaction, gives nothing in return but
momentary, fleeting pleasure and leaves no mark,
impression or memories, no scars, pain or regret.

Loving which leads to sacrifice and hard work, leaves a
lasting impression and changes you so you are never the
same again. You become a more wonderful, richer person
once the beautiful feeling and memory of love enters and
nourishes your heart, and you allow it to sweeten your
thoughts for ever more.

Love as good old momentary fun cannot take you high or
bring you down, it is but a nice idea and can be enjoyed
without any problem or thought. If the one you had in
mind is not available, any congenial person will do.

BUT when deep love is present, your heart will be different
and you can go as high as you allow yourself to go.